<![CDATA[ST. JOHN, FENTON - Youth Ministry Blog]]>Sat, 13 Jun 2026 14:25:22 -0400Weebly<![CDATA[Two Stories, One Amazing Birth: Exploring the Differences in Matthew and Luke]]>Tue, 03 Dec 2024 17:56:49 GMThttps://www.stjohnfenton.org/youthblog/two-stories-one-amazing-birth-exploring-the-differences-in-matthew-and-lukeWhen you think of the story of Jesus' birth, you might picture the shepherds, the angels, the wise men, and the star all coming together in one incredible moment. But did you know that these details actually come from two different Gospel accounts—Matthew and Luke?
Let’s dive into what makes these two stories unique and why having two perspectives is such a big deal.

The Story According to Matthew
Matthew starts his Gospel by focusing on Jesus’ family tree, showing how He is connected to important figures like King David and Abraham. Then, Matthew tells us about Joseph, who learns in a dream that Mary will give birth to Jesus.

One of the most famous parts of Matthew’s account is the visit of the wise men (also called Magi). They follow a star to find Jesus, bringing gifts fit for a king: gold, frankincense, and myrrh. But there’s also tension in this story—King Herod hears about Jesus and feels threatened, so he tries to stop Him.

Matthew’s version feels like a royal drama, focusing on kings, prophecies, and Jesus’ connection to Jewish history.

The Story According to Luke
​Luke’s story feels a bit different. Instead of starting with Jesus’ genealogy, Luke begins with the angel Gabriel visiting Mary to tell her she will be the mother of Jesus. Mary’s role is central in Luke’s account, and her faith and courage are highlighted.

Instead of wise men, we meet shepherds out in the fields. Angels appear to them, announcing Jesus’ birth and filling the night sky with songs of joy. The shepherds hurry to find Jesus in a humble stable, lying in a manger.

Luke’s version has a warmer, more personal feel, focusing on ordinary people and the joy that Jesus brings to everyone, from the poor to the outcast.

Why Are These Stories Different?
You might be wondering, “Why don’t Matthew and Luke tell the story the same way?” That’s a great question! Each Gospel writer had a specific purpose and audience in mind when they wrote their account.
  • Matthew wanted to show Jewish readers that Jesus is the promised Messiah, the King who fulfills all the prophecies in the Old Testament. That’s why he includes details like the wise men and Jesus’ connection to King David.
  • Luke wanted to share the story of Jesus with people who weren’t Jewish, like the Gentiles. His focus was on how Jesus came for everyone, especially those who might feel left out. That’s why we see shepherds and songs of joy in his account.

Two Stories, One Big Picture
Even though the stories are different, they work together to tell us something amazing. Each account gives us a unique perspective, helping us see the full picture of who Jesus is and what His birth means for the world.

Think of it like looking at a diamond—every angle reveals something new and beautiful. Matthew and Luke aren’t competing with each other; they’re working together to help us understand the incredible truth of Jesus’ arrival.

Now that you know a bit more about the differences between these two accounts, what do you think? Why do you think it’s valuable to have both stories? What can you learn from the details that Matthew and Luke chose to include?

​The next time you read these stories, think about what they’re teaching you. How will you live like someone who knows the King? How will you share the good news with others?
You’ve got a great adventure ahead of you—go live it!
]]><![CDATA[Anxiety and the Christian Life]]>Mon, 22 May 2023 18:56:20 GMThttps://www.stjohnfenton.org/youthblog/anxiety-and-the-christian-lifeBefore we begin, I'd like to offer a brief disclaimer that I am not a mental health professional and when we reference anxiety in the following article, we're speaking of general situational anxiety rather than clinical anxiety disorder. That being said, let's dive in. 

Anxiety is a pervasive challenge that many people face in our modern world. As Catholics, we have access to a rich tradition of teachings and practices that can help us understand and overcome anxiety in both spiritual and practical ways. In this article, we will explore some key sections of the Catechism of the Catholic Church that speak to the topic of anxiety, as well as relevant writings of the saints and scripture verses. 

The Catechism teaches us that "the desire for God is written in the human heart, because man is created by God and for God; and God never ceases to draw man to himself" (CCC 27). This fundamental truth reminds us that our ultimate source of security and peace is found in our relationship with God. When we experience anxiety, it is often a symptom of our internal battle to balance our free will with the Lord’s divine will. In this case, it can be helpful to focus on this truth and turn to God in prayer, seeking His presence and guidance. 

Also in the Catechism, we learn about the cardinal virtue of fortitude, which allows us to overcome fear and face difficult situations with courage and grace (CCC 1808). Developing this virtue through prayer, self-discipline, and the support of our community can help us cultivate the inner strength needed to face anxiety and lean into God’s will with the confidence that He has our back. 

The writings of the saints also offer us valuable insights into understanding and overcoming anxiety. Saint Teresa of Avila, for example, wrote extensively about the importance of detachment and trust in God, teaching us that "all things are passing, and God alone suffices" (The Interior Castle). Similarly, Saint Padre Pio encouraged us to "pray, hope, and don't worry" – a simple and powerful reminder that trusting in God's providence can help alleviate anxiety. 

Additionally, scripture offers us plenty of verses that can bring comfort and hope amid anxiety. Philippians 4:6-7 encourages us to "not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Psalm 55:22 reminds us to "cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved." 

Understanding and overcoming anxiety on our journey as disciples requires us to turn to our faith and draw upon its rich resources of the Church’s teachings, practices, and community. Through prayer, detachment, fortitude, and trust in God's providence, we can find the peace and security we need to face anxiety with courage and grace. In a sense, we can begin to see ourselves and our lives from God’s eyes.  

Let's put this into practical terms. I distinctly remember a season in my life that was wrought with anxiety despite having everything going for me in a worldly sense. I was engaged to my high school sweetheart, on track for a career in the fire service, and doing well academically. However, towards the end of that season, my anxieties started to take over, and I realized that the trajectory of my life was far from what God was calling me to be. 

As time went on, everything I had built for myself during that time started to fall apart. My relationship ended, my career turned out to be different from what I had expected, my grades slipped, and I found myself surrounded by people I did not want to become like. To recollect myself, I decided to move to Colorado, where I could climb mountains, clear my head, and reevaluate the trajectory of my life. 

During what became a transitional season in life, I discovered the importance of prayer and building relationships with mentors and people who exemplified discipleship. Through this process, I realized how heavily I had been relying on my own will instead of being faithful to the Lord's plan for my life. This experience taught me the dangers of leaning too heavily on my own will and not being faithful to God's plan. 

It was by the grace of God, through mentors and other true disciples such as a young woman who is now my bride and the mother of my children, that I learned to lean into the providence of God and understand the importance of trusting the Lord with every situation knowing that, even if things go wrong, He will redeem them and make them bear fruit in the end. 

Finally, anxiety is a common challenge that many of us face, but it is not insurmountable. As Catholics, we have a wealth of resources at our disposal, including the teachings of the Catechism, the writings of the saints, and scripture verses. By focusing on God's will for our lives, developing the virtue of fortitude, practicing detachment and trust in God, and seeking support from our faith community, we can find the peace and security we need to face anxiety with courage and grace. Our own experiences teach us that when we trust in the Lord's plan for our lives, we will be able to see ourselves and our lives from God's eyes and understand the power of His providence. 

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]]><![CDATA[Prayer is Essential for Growth]]>Mon, 15 May 2023 17:59:28 GMThttps://www.stjohnfenton.org/youthblog/prayer-is-essential-for-growthPrayer is an essential aspect of Catholic youth discipleship formation. It is through our prayer life that we develop a deeper relationship with God and grow in awareness of His presence in our lives. As the Catechism of the Catholic Church points out, prayer is a vital necessity for the life of the disciple of Christ. 
 
To cultivate a strong prayer life, it's important for Catholic youth to establish the habit of prayer from a young age and to engage in it regularly throughout their lives. This might involve setting aside time each day for personal prayer or attending Mass or other forms of communal worship. Additionally, Catholic youth can benefit from learning about various forms of prayer, such as Christian meditation, contemplation, vocal prayer, musical prayer, Eucharistic adoration, or prayer with scripture to find what works best for them. 

Overall, the importance of prayer in the life of a young disciple cannot be overstated. Through prayer, we deepen our faith, draw closer to God, and are better equipped to navigate the challenges of daily life with grace and peace. Whether it's through formal prayer practices or informal conversation with God throughout the day, youth should strive to make prayer a regular part of their spiritual life. 

There are many strategies that young people can use to establish a regular prayer practice. Here are a few effective ones: 
  1.  Set aside a specific time and place for prayer each day: This can help create a routine and make it more likely that prayer will become a regular habit. 
  2. Use a prayer journal or devotional guide: These tools can help provide structure and focus during prayer time and allow for reflection on progress over time. 
  3. Participate in communal prayer: Attending Mass or other forms of communal prayer such as adoration or youth group can be a great way to stay connected to the faith community and maintain accountability for regular prayer practice. 
  4. Try out different forms of prayer: Trying out different styles of Christian meditation, contemplation, and vocal prayer can help find what works best for each individual's needs and preferences.
  5. Incorporate prayer into everyday activities: For example, saying a quick prayer before meals or bed or incorporating Christian meditation techniques during exercise can help make prayer a more integrated part of daily life. 

 Ultimately, the key is to try different techniques and find what works best for you. By being intentional about prayer practices, youth can establish a regular practice that enriches their spiritual life and deepens their relationship with God. 

Like any good thing, there will be challenges along the road to establishing a regular prayer routine. Here are a few examples along with some suggestions on how to overcome them: 
  1. Lack of time: Busy schedules can make it difficult to find time for prayer. One way to overcome this challenge is to identify pockets of time throughout the day, such as during a commute or before bed, and use those moments for prayer. 
  2. Distractions: Technology and other distractions can make it hard to focus during prayer. To overcome this obstacle, try setting your phone on silent or in another room during prayer time, or finding a quiet place where you can minimize distractions. 
  3. Lack of motivation: It can be hard to stay motivated to pray regularly, especially when you don't see immediate results. To stay motivated, try setting realistic goals and celebrating progress along the way. If all else fails, just commit to 5 minutes in whatever moment you find yourself and see where it takes you.  
  4. Spiritual dryness: There may be times when prayer feels dry or unfulfilling. During these times, it can be helpful to seek guidance from a spiritual mentor or to try new forms of prayer to deepen your connection with God. Don’t have a spiritual mentor? The Parish can connect you with a small discipleship group led by a mentor. Just call the Office of Youth Ministries and let them know what you are looking for.

Overall, the key to overcoming these obstacles is persistence and dedication. By recognizing the challenges and actively working to overcome them, youth CAN establish a regular prayer routine that brings richness and depth to their spiritual life. 

The biggest challenge that I have noticed is motivation. It can be really hard to pray regularly, especially when the results may not be immediately visible. Here are some tips that youth can use to stay motivated: 
  1. Remember the reasons why you pray: To unite ourselves with the God who loves us and gives us the grace to pray in the first place. Ask God to give you that grace and see where it takes you. Also, reflect on other benefits of prayer, such as a deepening of your relationship with God and the sense of inner peace, strength, and healing that it will bring. Focus on the long-term positive outcomes rather than the immediate results. 
  2. Set realistic goals: Setting achievable goals can help keep you motivated. Start with a small goal, like praying for 5 minutes each day, and gradually increase the time as you become more comfortable with the practice. 
  3. Find an accountability partner: Having someone to share your progress and struggles with can help keep you accountable and motivated. This could be a friend, family member, or spiritual mentor. 
  4. Switch up your prayer routine: Trying new forms of prayer can bring fresh energy and motivation to your practice. Experiment with different types of prayer, such as Christian meditation, scripture, or journaling or sitting in silence contemplating the face of Christ.
  5. Seek spiritual community: Surrounding yourself with others who share your faith can provide encouragement, support, and inspiration. Consider joining a small group or attending Mass or youth group regularly in order to connect with others and deepen your spiritual practice. 

Whatever you do, don’t give up, even if you don't see immediate results. You can do this! 

To sum up, establishing a regular prayer routine as a youth can be challenging, especially when immediate results are not evident. However, staying motivated is possible by keeping in mind the benefits of prayer, setting realistic goals, finding an accountability partner, switching up your prayer routine, and seeking spiritual community. By following these tips, you can cultivate a deeper connection with God and experience His loving, healing, and powerful presence in your life. 

​AD]]><![CDATA["GO" | A NOTE ON THIS YEAR'S THEME]]>Wed, 01 Sep 2021 04:00:00 GMThttps://www.stjohnfenton.org/youthblog/go-a-note-on-this-years-themeThe theme of this year's youth programing at St. John is based on the great commission given by Christ to his disciples in the gospel of Matthew, chapter 28. During his time with his disciples after the resurrection and before his ascension,  Christ, commissions his disciples to "Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you; and behold, I am with you always, to the close of the age." (Mt. 28:19-20 RSV2CE).

Simply put, out mission as Christians is to make disciples. Discipleship is heavily rooted in relationship--three relationships actually: with God, with yourself, and with others. To put this in the context of our faith journey,  typically we encounter the Lord, we subsequently come to a deeper understanding of who we are and how we were meant to live in light of what Christ did for us, and then we go out to share our experience of the living God with others so that they too can experience the love, joy, peace, strength, and grace that comes from a life with Christ.

In light of this mission, our vision for youth ministries here at St. John is to provide environments in which every student has the opportunity to encounter the Living God and to build healthy, meaningful, and fruitful relationships with God, self, and others. This is accomplished through encounter opportunities and fellowship. However, the adventure of our faith doesn't stop there. Our Theme this year intentionally emphasizes the word "GO". Christ did not merely sit in the temple and wait for people to come to him. Although there were frequently people seeking Christ out, he also went to meet people where they were and called them to an exceptional life. Just as Christ went out to the tax office and called Matthew, and to the well to meet the Samaritan woman, he desires to meet you right where you are. He is calling us to an exceptional life, and he desires to use us to meet others where they are and call them too.

In John 10:10, Christ tells us that he came that we might have life, and have it abundantly. What a gift! The Most High God loves us so much that he sent his only son to free us from the weight of sin and the burdens of this life that we might have abundant life through him. We sincerely hope that you take the opportunity to join us for one of the many opportunities that we have available this year for both middle school and high school students to encounter the living God, and build meaningful relationships, and be empowered to step into their daily as witnesses to the power and love of God in our lives.

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